Monday, November 2, 2020

Hymenal Bleeding - Does it Make a Woman a Niddah?

The law that a woman who is menstruating is prohibited from intercourse with her husband is a clear Torah prohibition.

Do not come near a woman during her (menstrual) period of uncleanness to uncover her nakedness. (Leviticus 18:19)

In other verses we learn that this "uncleanness" refers to the blood of her period that comes from the uterus.
If a man lies with a woman in her infirmity and uncovers her nakedness, he has laid bare her flow and she has exposed the source of her blood flow; both of them shall be cut off from among their people. (Leviticus 20:18)
Those words "the source of her blood flow" is understood by the Rabbis to mean that the only blood that makes a woman prohibited is blood that comes from the "Makor" or the "source" which means the uterus.  This is repeated in many places, for example:
"if she will have": from the pronouncement on. "a flow": I might think even if she flows from any place she is tamei; it is, therefore, written (Vayikra 20:18) "and she has revealed the source of her blood." This teaches us about (her) blood that (it causes uncleanliness) only if it comes from the source (the uterus) (Sifra, Metzorah, Parsha 4:2)
From here the rule is established that only uterine blood causes a woman to have the status of a niddah and not blood from any other source such as a vaginal wound or growth or injury of any sort.  This is called a "dam makkah" or the "blood of a wound".

Hymenal bleeding is clearly established by the Talmud in the category of blood from a wound that does not render a woman a Niddah. the Mishna in Niddah states:
In the case of a young girl whose time to see a menstrual flow, i.e., the age of puberty, has not yet arrived, and she married and engaged in intercourse and her hymen was torn, Beit Shammai say: The Sages give her four nights after intercourse during which the blood is attributed to the torn hymen and she remains ritually pure. Thereafter, any blood is assumed to be menstrual blood and renders her impure. And Beit Hillel say: The blood is attributed to the torn hymen until the wound heals. ...In the case of a young woman who saw menstrual blood before marriage while she was still in her father’s house, Beit Shammai say: The Sages give her permission to engage only in relations that consummate a marriage, which are a mitzva, after which she is ritually impure due to the blood. And Beit Hillel say: The husband and wife may engage even in several acts of intercourse, as any blood seen throughout the entire night is attributed to the torn hymen. (Mishna Niddah 64b)
This Mishna was written in a time that child marriage was considered acceptable.  This would be abhorrent in our time and prohibited by all modern rabbinical authorities.  For the sake of our discussion today, I will ask you to painfully look past the child marriage issue here and focus on the issue related to our current discussion.  The Mishna clearly establishes that hymenal bleeding is considered blood of a wound and does not render a woman a niddah. Even a woman who has already started menstruating prior to marriage, Beit Hillel says clearly that she is not considered a niddah from the first intercourse, as one can assume that her bleeding was from the hymen.
However, on the next page, the Talmud records a rabbinic decree:
Although the Mishnah provides a certain period of time for both a minor and a young woman during which they may attribute any blood to the torn hymen, nevertheless Rav and Shmuel both say that the halakha is that the groom engages in relations that consummate a marriage, which are a mitzva, and then he separates from his wife. (Talmud Niddah 65b)
From the context of the conversation, it seems clear that Rav and Shmuel are discussing the same case that the gemara had been discussing the entire time.  That is, when a new husband has intercourse with his virgin wife for the first time, and there is bleeding, he can complete the act, and then he should separate from her until she counts 7 clean days and immerses in the mikveh. This is an added stringency to the Mishna in which Beit Hillel permitted further intercourse despite the bleeding until the "wound" of the torn hymen is healed.  After that, he may continue having intercourse as normal, unless she sees blood again which can no longer be attributed to the torn hymen and must be assumed to be menstrual blood.  The reason for this added stringency is presumably because we are concerned that at least some of this blood is coming from a uterine source (The Talmud Yerushalmi in Berakhot 19a seems to indicate that this is the concern). This is indeed the way this Halacha is clearly recorded in the Rambam (translations are my own): issurei biah 5:18-19.
The blood of the hymen is pure, and it is not considered menstrual blood or blood of zivah, as it does not come from the uterus. So, what is the law regarding hymenal bleeding for a virgin? ... (I am skipping here the laws of marriage to a young girl who has not yet menstruated) ... If she has begun normal menstruation while still living in her father's house, and then she gets married, he shall only have the first intercourse with her and then separate from her (due to the bleeding from the first intercourse) and we assume that the hymenal bleeding from the first intercourse is (also) the beginning of her period.... (Mishna Torah Hilchot Issurei Biah 5:18-19) 
It seems quite clear from the language of the Rambam, that this rule of Rav and Shmuel is referring to what one must do IF there is bleeding from the first intercourse.  As the Rambam stated "we assume that the hymenal bleeding from the first intercourse is also ..."   In other words, according to Beit Hillel we should allow for continued intercourse despite hymenal bleeding because we can assume that the blood is hymenal in origin and not menstrual.  Nonetheless, Rav and Shmuel added a stringency that we consider this blood to be menstrual in origin, even though we otherwise could've assumed that the bleeding was from the torn hymen.

The Rambam is extremely clear about this, and repeats it again:
...and so is the law regarding the blood of the hymen, that even if ... she never has had a period before, he has the first intercourse and then separates from her (due to the bleeding from the first intercourse) and as long as she continues to have bleeding due to the wound (of the hymenal tearing) she is considered "tameh" ...  (Mishna Torah Hilchot Issurei Biah 11:8) 
Again, it is clear from the Rambam that he understood that the reason he must separate from her, is because of the blood from the hymenal tearing.  If there is no blood, then there would be no reason to separate from her. 

Let me mention also the Rif (Rabbi Yitzchak Alfasi), who discusses these laws in Shavuot Chapter two.  There is no mention of the need to separate if there is no bleeding.

The Hagahot Maimuniot (HM) (Rabbi Meir HaKohen of Rothenburg - end of 13th century) annotates the Rambam in chapter 11 which we just quoted and says:
The Raavad writes that it makes no difference if he sees the blood or otherwise (as we suspect there was blood anyway), however there is one who holds that this law applies only if she has bleeding, and it seems that one should be lenient (and assume that if they don't see bleeding she need not separate from her husband) However, I found in Rashi (that he is) stringent, and similarly in the Rokeach and in the Ramban, as he (the Ramban) writes, "Even if she does not see any bleeding, we don't think that maybe that he "tilted" (had intercourse in such a way that did not cause bleeding due to trauma to the hymen) and if so her hymen is still intact (and therefore she is still permitted to him) because it is not common to "tilt" in this way and therefore we suspect that there maybe was some (small amount of) blood and it just got lost, and therefore he should finish this first intercourse and then separate etc." and my teacher our rabbi also ruled that we should be stringent (even when there is no blood) and even those rabbis who are lenient (and assume that when there is no blood she is still permitted) require that she check herself with a cloth (to make sure there was no blood) (HM note 3)
There are a few points I would like to make clear from the words of the HM:
  1. That it is clear that during the time of the HM there were Rabbis who felt that they should separate after the first intercourse regardless of whether or not there is bleeding, and there were Rabbis who felt that she should check herself and if there is no blood, she is OK to remain with her husband normally
  2. It is clear that everyone understood that the Gemara meant that they must separate due to the actual blood of hymenal tearing. The Ramban and others however were stringent because they assumed that there would always be blood from hymenal tearing at the first intercourse.  The only way they thought there could not be bleeding, is if a person "tilted" in such a way that did not tear the hymen.  This they felt was unusual for most people, and therefore they felt that even if they didn't see blood, it must've been there, but they missed it. 
  3. That the Ra'avad felt that we should be lenient in this matter, while many other authorities felt that we should be stringent even when the blood is not found
So, the "universal" Halachic practice of automatically separating from one's newlywed after the first intercourse was not so universal after all, at least until the time of the HM. In fact, it was only enacted because the rishonim that were stringent assumed that every virgin has a hymen, and that with the first intercourse the hymen would tear, and that this would cause bleeding. 

In our next post, we will follow this Halacha as it made its way into the Shulchan Aruch, and how it became standard practice among Halacha observant Jewry.  We will soon see how the lenient opinions we just reviewed became no longer an accepted norm. We are also going to explore in more depth the opinions of the "machmirim" (the stringent ones).

Sunday, November 1, 2020

The First Time

After my discussion of the issue of male masturbation a few weeks ago, I have been inundated with requests to discuss issues related to sexuality in the Orthodox world. I wanted to move on to other topics, but apparently there is a huge need to discuss these topics, so this blog series is a response to that need.  I recently listened to this podcast here which was a Zoom panel discussion regarding many sexual problems that plague the Orthodox community.  The panel was inspired by the Netflix series "Unorthodox".  Rabbi Scott Kahn and Talli Rosenbaum of the Intimate Judaism blog hosted several experts, all of whom were incredibly qualified and articulate and had so many important things to say.  I was blown away by the amount of material they covered, and I wasn't sure where to start.   

I asked myself, "What role would my blog have in helping to tackle this issue?" The answer was obvious.  The panelists were all mental health professionals (with the exception of Rabbi Kahn) who treat patients from the Orthodox communities that need help navigating issues related to sexual intimacy.  Every single one of the panelists were committed to Halacha, but they all noted that many of the problems they deal with are a result of the Halachic parameters that are brought into the marriage from day one.  The origins of these Halachic parameters are complex, and the way they are taught and understood are complex as well.  Unfortunately, for various reasons, these have resulted in certain dysfunctions and difficulties that these therapists had to struggle with as they treated their patients.  I urge you to listen to the podcast before you continue reading this blog.

I share the desire to follow Halacha.  However,  I have argued before, and will continue to argue that a rationalist approach to these Halakhot is the only way to find real solutions to these problems. We need to be intellectually honest about these Halakhot so that we can stay true to the tenets of Orthodox Judaism while finding real solutions.

Repeatedly, the panelists discussed the issue of the first intercourse between a new husband and wife.  The pressure to "get it done" is immense, and it has many negative effects on the marriage.  I refer you to the podcast to understand why this is such a big problem. They are therapists and explain very clearly why this is such a problem. My place is to explain the Halachic origins of this issue, and how a rationalistic analysis may be able to "change the Halachic paradigm".  I have done this on this blog for the issues of male masturbation, treating gentiles on shabbat, organ donations, and abortion.  I will now do this for these issues as well. So, let us trace the laws of "the first intercourse" and see how they became what they are today, and decide if it does indeed need to be that way. Maybe a new analysis can help solve this dilemma.

First, an all too brief summary of the Halacha that is at the heart of the issue. There is a biblical law against a husband and wife having sexual intercourse while she is menstruating.  In an "ideal" case, a new bride and groom have not had sexual intercourse (with anyone) prior to their wedding.  When a woman has sex for the first time, there is sometimes a small amount of bleeding due to the tearing of the hymen.  The law is that we consider this blood to be menstrual blood. Thus, after the first intercourse the bride immediately becomes a niddah and is prohibited to her husband until she counts seven "clean" days and goes to the mikvah.  Only after that can the couple begin a "normal' intimate relationship where every time they have intercourse she doesn't automatically become a niddah again.  

Therefore, you can imagine the pressure to "get it over with" for the first time. Obviously, things are much more complicated.  We are going to take a journey down this road in the upcoming series of posts and explain where all this comes from and answer all your questions.

Before we even start our analysis, I need to dispel one major misconception.  Some people think that a marriage is not fully "consummated" until there is an act of intercourse between the newlyweds.  This is completely not true.  The wedding ceremony itself is all that is necessary for a marriage to be a legal and Halachic marriage. This ceremony includes the exchange of an item of value (typically a ring) and the "chuppah" ceremony which includes the "Yichud" (where the couple spends some time alone).  Even were a couple to never have sexual intercourse, they would still be fully married.   

Now we can begin our journey.

Here are some of the questions we will tackle during this new series of posts.

1.     Why is the hymenal bleeding considered like Niddah blood (clearly it is not menstrual blood)? What is the origin of this idea?

2.     why is she forbidden to the husband even if there is no bleeding with the first intercourse? When and why did this become "normative"?

3.     Does the new couple really have to have sex right away, why can't they wait a little until they are more comfortable with each other?

4.     Can the new couple engage in other sexual activity that doesn't include vaginal intercourse in order to delay the niddah prohibition?  If not, why not?

5.     Is it possible that entirely new halachic paradigm, consistent with halachic sources might be a reasonable alternative?

I hope you enjoy this new topic.

Wednesday, October 28, 2020

Lech Lecha - Circumcision According to the Rationalists

This is the second post in my new RMH Parsha Series, which has so far been very well received.  The topic I chose to discuss this week is circumcision. At the end this week's Torah portion, we read as follows: 

God further said to Abraham, “As for you, you and your offspring to come throughout the ages shall keep My covenant. Such shall be the covenant between Me and you and your offspring to follow which you shall keep: every male among you shall be circumcised. You shall circumcise the flesh of your foreskin, and that shall be the sign of the covenant between Me and you. And throughout the generations, every male among you shall be circumcised at the age of eight days. As for the homeborn slave and the one bought from an outsider who is not of your offspring, they must be circumcised, homeborn, and purchased alike. Thus shall My covenant be marked in your flesh as an everlasting pact. And if any male who is uncircumcised fails to circumcise the flesh of his foreskin, that person shall be cut off from his kin; he has broken My covenant.”(Genesis 17:9-14)

The Torah makes it clear that the circumcision is to be a sign of the covenant between God and His people.  The question still lingers, why is this the sign of the covenant? Why not choose some other sign? Why in this particular part of our body? and many more questions ... As the readers of this blog know quite well, the rationalist and the mystical streams of Judaism have different philosophies regarding the reasons why we do the mitzvot. This blog is about "Rationalist" Medical Halacha.  So, this week we will explore the Rationalist approach to circumcision.

The Torah - Circumcision as a Sign of the Covenant Between God and His People

Our discussion must always begin with the Torah itself, and we just read the words of the Torah itself as God introduced this Mitzvah to our forefather Abraham. We concluded that the "reason" is as a sign of the special covenant between God and His people.  In every single mention in Tanach of Milah, this is clearly understood as the reason for this practice.  Here is a comprehensive list:

1.   Genesis 17 - in the verses quoted above, the very punishment for not being circumcised is being "cut off from his kin". 

2.   Genesis 34:15-16.  Jacob and his sons declare to the people of Shechem, that in order to join with the Israelites and intermarry, they would need to be circumcised.  This clearly demonstrates how circumcision divides between the people that are "in" the covenant, and people that are "out."

3.   Exodus 5:25. Zipporah must circumcise her child (Whom Moses himself had not circumcised) to bring him to join his brethren in Egypt.  This is a cryptic and difficult to understand episode, but most commentaries would agree that this indicated that in order to join the rest of his people as they were to leave Egypt, the boys needed to be circumcised.

4.   Exodus 12:47-48 regarding the Paschal Sacrifice, celebrating the birth of the Jewish nation as an independent people: "The whole community of Israel shall offer it. If a stranger who dwells with you would offer the Passover to the LORD, all his males must be circumcised; then he shall be admitted to offer it; he shall then be as a citizen of the country. But no uncircumcised person may eat of it” It is quite clear, that to be a "member of the tribe" one must be circumcised

5.   Joshua 5:2-8.  As soon as the Jewish people entered the promised land to begin to establish their independence in their new homeland, the first thing Joshua did was to make sure all males were circumcised.  Now they were all full-fledged members of the new nation about to make its mark upon the world stage

It is therefore obvious, that throughout the time of the Tanach, Circumcision was understood as a sign that differentiated between Jews as members of the special covenant with God, and idol-worshippers, who were not part of this covenant. This is why throughout the prophets, the Hebrew term "Arel" meaning "uncircumcised" was synonymous with the term "non-Jew". Examples include Judges 14:3, Samuel 31:4, Isaiah 52:1, and many more.


Jeremiah - Circumcision as a Sign of the Removal of Obstacles Between God and Our Hearts

The problem with a physical sign of a covenant, is that people often make the critical mistake that all God wants is a physical sign, and ...presto! You are now the member of the special God-club!  This misconception was one that the prophets had to deal with from the very beginning.  God wants much more from us than a physical sign, He wants our hearts, and He wants our actions.  He wants us to learn important lessons from this mitzvah, and the prophet Jeremiah was the first to take on this problem.

In the book of Jeremiah, the prophet is consistently frustrated that the people mistakenly assume that God wants rituals, and that doing the ritual acts are enough to gain God's favor. Jeremiah lashes out against those who think that prayer, sacrifices, incense, and Temple rituals will somehow appease God.  He demands, like all the prophets who preceded him, real action.  The prophet repeatedly emphasizes the immorality and corruption of the Jewish people, and the imminent destruction of Jerusalem that God is about to unleash should they not repent their ways. The people refused to listen, they believed that God would never punish His people or destroy them.  After all, they are his favored people! Doesn't their circumcision demonstrate their special relationship to God/ How could God punish them like Jeremiah was predicting?  So, the prophet had to teach them, no physical sign on your body will save you if you do not open your hearts and improve yourselves morally and ethically:

Lo, days are coming—declares the LORD—when I will take note of everyone circumcised in the foreskin: of Egypt, Judah, Edom, the Ammonites, Moab, and all the desert dwellers who have the hair of their temples clipped. For all these nations are uncircumcised, but all the House of Israel are uncircumcised of heart (Jeremiah 9:24-25

The circumcision will not save you even though it may differentiate you from your neighbors.  If you act like your neighbors, and you do not humble yourselves, then your "uncircumcised heart" will be your downfall.  Circumcise your heart, not just your penis.  

So, the second explanation of the commandment is taking shape in the words of Jeremiah.  The foreskin represents the obstacles that interfere between our true inner selves and God.  Those obstacles are our lies, our greed, and our corruption.

Philo versus the Hellenistic Greek Culture

During the second temple period, the decree by Antiochus Epiphanes against Jewish circumcision was intended to force the Jewish population to assimilate into general Greek culture. The Jewish resistance to the decree was motivated by the intense Jewish attachment to their faith and traditions. As we know from the story of Chanukah, the Jews rebelled and prevailed.  However, the Hellenistic culture remained the primary cultural influence outside of Judaism and eventually it evolved into Roman culture.  Both Roman and Greek culture admired and, in some cases, worshipped the human form.  Both found circumcision to be reprehensible. Both did not like the Jewish practice of circumcision and wanted the Jews to stop the practice and assimilate into the rest of the empire. 

Force did not work to make the Jews change their practice, so the Greeks and then the Romans resorted to argumentation as well.  They accused the Jews of being barbaric, unnecessarily causing pain, and mutilating their bodies.  The Jewish people were now forced to explain to both themselves and to others why they were still practicing this ancient rite.  It was easy enough for a Jew to open the Torah and the book of Jeremiah and learn why circumcision was important, but how do we counter the relentless attacks against the practice from the gentiles among whom they lived?

The first Jewish philosopher to take up this challenge was Philo Judeaus of Alexandria (circa 20 BCE - 50 CE). Philo was an important Jewish philosopher who lived in Alexandria during the times of the second temple, when Egypt was part of the Ptolemaic kingdom.  Philo's writings are often directed at defending the meaning and purpose of Jewish religion and practice from the incessant attacks of the surrounding Hellenistic culture. Although his works have not generally been accepted into the rabbinic canon, one can still learn a lot from his philosophical explanations of the laws of the Torah.  He is considered to have been heavily influenced by the thought of Plato, and very well versed in the philosophy and science of his time.  Here is a quote from his "Treatise on Circumcision" (If you want to do the express version, feel free to skip to my summary at the end):

The genera and heads of all special laws, which are called "the ten commandments," have been discussed with accuracy in the former treatise. We must now proceed to consider the particular commands as we read them in the subsequent passages of the holy scriptures and we will begin with that which is turned into ridicule by people in general. The ordinance of circumcision of the parts of generation is ridiculed, though it is an act which is practiced to no slight degree among other nations also, and most especially by the Egyptians, who appear to me to be the most populous of all nations, and the most abounding in all kinds of wisdom. In consequence of which it would be most fitting for men to discard childish ridicule, and to investigate the real causes of the ordinance with more prudence and dignity, considering the reasons why the custom has prevailed, and not being precipitate, so as without examination to condemn the folly of mighty nations, recollecting that it is not probable that so many myriads should be circumcised in every generation, mutilating the bodies of themselves and of their nearest relations, in a manner which is accompanied with severe pain, without adequate cause; but that there are many reasons which might encourage men to persevere and continue a custom which has been introduced by previous generations, and that these are from reasons of the greatest weight and importance. 
First of all, that it is a preventive of a painful disease, and of an affliction difficult to be cured, which they call a carbuncle; because, I imagine, when it becomes inflamed it burns; from which fact it has derived that appellation. And this disease is very apt to be engendered among those who have not undergone the rite of circumcision. Secondly, it secures the cleanliness of the whole body in a way that is suited to the people consecrated to God; with which object the Egyptian priests, being extravagant in their case, shave the whole of their bodies; for some of these evils which ought to be got rid of are collected in and lodge under the hair and the prepuce. 
Thirdly, there is the resemblance of the part that is circumcised to the heart; for both parts are prepared for the sake of generation; for the breath contained within the heart is generative of thoughts, and the generative organ itself is productive of living beings.
Therefore, the men of old thought it right to make the evident and visible organ, by which the objects of the outward senses are generated, resemble that invisible and superior part, by means of which ideas are formed. The fourth, and most important, is that which relates to the provision thus made for prolificness; for it is said that the seminal fluid proceeds in its path easily, neither being at all scattered, nor flowing on its passage into what may be called the bags of the prepuce. On which account those nations which practice circumcision are the most prolific and the most populous.
These considerations have come to our ears, having been discussed of old among men of divine spirit and wisdom, who have interpreted the writings of Moses in no superficial or careless manner. But, besides what has been already said, I also look upon circumcision to be a symbol of two things of the most indispensable importance.
First of all, it is a symbol of the excision of the pleasures which delude the mind; for since, of all the delights which pleasure can afford, the association of man with woman is the most exquisite, it seemed good to the lawgivers to mutilate the organ which ministers to such connections; by which rite they signified figuratively the excision of all superfluous and excessive pleasure, not, indeed, of one only, but of all others whatever, through that one which is the most imperious of all.
The second thing is, that it is a symbol of a man's knowing himself, and discarding that terrible disease, the vain opinion of the soul; for some men, like good statuaries, have boasted that they can make that most beautiful animal, man; and, being puffed up with arrogance, have deified themselves, hiding from sight the true cause of the creation of all things namely, God, although they might have corrected that error from a consideration of other persons among whom they live; for there are among them many men who have no children, and many barren women whose connections lead to nothing, so that they grow old in childlessness.
We must therefore eradicate evil opinions from the mind, and all other ideas which are not devoted to God.

To summarize the ideas express by Philo, there are five main ideas:  

1. It prevents disease, such as some sort of "carbuncle" which can grow on the foreskin

2. It is clean, and prevents diseases which reside underneath the foreskin and cause some sort of infection

3. It represents the removal of the "foreskin of the heart" and brings about humility. It teaches us that even our own bodies are not perfect, and that we must humble ourselves before our true creator, God 

4.  It increases fertility by allowing more semen to be ejaculated

5.   It reduces sexual pleasure, which he viewed as a positive result in that it helps people focus more on God 

We have now added several more explanations of the circumcision commandment that we have not yet been exposed to.  Some of Philo's explanations were eventually adopted by later rabbinic scholars, and some were dropped and eventually ignored, as we shall see, Interestingly, the reason explicitly stated in the Torah, that of a sign of the special covenant between God and His people, was not mentioned by Philo.  Perhaps this was because many Egyptians themselves practiced circumcision, and Philo was trying to highlight similarities to gain acceptance by the society within which he lived.  He was not trying to highlight what made the Jews different.  

Rabbi Akiva - Man Perfects God's Creation

 A distinction is often made by Jewish writers between two types of commandments.  There are "Chukim" and there are "Mishpatim".   In general, a mishpat refers to a commandment in the Torah that is logical and something we probably would have come up with on our own, even without the Torah.  Examples would include most interpersonal mitzvot, such as honesty, charity etc.  A "chok" on the other hand refers to a mitzvah that does not make logical sense, and we would not have deduced it on our own. Examples would include restrictions against mixing meat and dairy etc...  These are extremely broad concepts of course.   

In general, rationalist thinkers tend to minimize the "chok" aspect of the Torah, and attempt to explain every mitzvah with a logical and sometimes scientific explanation.  When this is difficult, rather than say that there is no logical reason, such philosophers tend to say that we may not know the reason, but if we research hard enough, we will find the reason.  The most important such philosopher of course is Maimonides, who devotes an entire section in his Guide to explaining the reasons for mitzvot, even the ones that others dismiss as "chukim” ...

Philosophers that tend toward mystical thinking tend to emphasize the spiritual benefits of doing mitzvot because God commanded them.  There does not have to be a philosophical or scientific or social explanation. They tend to emphasize doing God's commandments because they are God's commandments. Period.  Even mitzvot that do make obvious logical sense should be performed out of allegiance to god, not because of mundane reasons.  The most extreme of such philosophers are those influenced by Kabbalah, but certainly there were many among the Talmudic Rabbis as well that emphasized this approach as well.

During the time of the Mishna and Talmud, there is of course a tremendous amount of discussion regarding the special mitzvah of circumcision.  However, almost all the discussion is about the laws of the mitzvah, the significance of the covenant between God and His people, and the holiness and importance of the rite of circumcision.  It is clear from the Talmud and Mishna that the reason for the mitzvah was, as stated in the Torah, a symbol of the covenant between God and the Jewish people. 

The first glimmer in the rabbinic literature that described another philosophical justification for the mitzvah of Milah is a discussion recorded in the Midrash Tanchuma. The Midrash tanchuma is one of the latest of all the Midrashim, and it appeared in its current form somewhere around the 8th or 9th century, but it is a compilation of rabbinic teachings that have been traced to much earlier times. Some have traced at least parts of the collection as far back as the second or third century (My translation from the Buber edition of Medrash Tanchuma Tazria:5).

How do we know that (circumcision) is considered a chok (something with no understandable reason)? As it says in Psalms 105:10 "And God established this for Jacob as a chok, for all of Israel a covenant forever" ..... There was a story that occurred when the evil Turnus Rufus (The Aramaic name of the  Roman governor, whose Roman name was Quintus Tineius Rufus, ruled in the time of Rabbi Akiva circa 90-130 CE, his tyrannical rule over the former Judea was so iron fisted and abusive that he is largely credited for spawning the Bar Kokhba rebellion against Rome.  His initial attempts at putting down the rebellion failed, and he was eventually disgraced due to his failure to control the Jewish rebellion) asked Rabbi Akiva, "Whose actions are more beautiful, God's or human beings?" Rabbi Akiva answered, "those of human beings!" Turnus Rufus responded, "Behold the heavens and the Earth, can a human being create anything like that?" Rabbi Akiva answered, "Don't ask me questions about things that human beings are not capable of, (as clearly that is a silly question and the two cannot be compared) If you are going to ask me questions of comparison, ask about things that human beings are capable of!" He then asked Rabbi Akiva, "Why are you (Jews) circumcised?" "I knew that's what you really wanted to ask!" Rabbi Akiva answered, "and that's why I said that the actions of human beings are more beautiful." Rabbi Akiva then brought in front of Turnus Rufus some stalks of grain and some cookies. He then said to Turnus rufus, "These (the stalks of grain) are the work of God's hands, and these (the cookies) are the work of man, aren't these cookies nicer than the stalks of grain?" Turnus Rufus then responded, "If God wanted you to be circumcised, why didn't He have babies be born circumcised already?" To which Rabbi Akiva responded, "When a baby comes out, isn’t the placenta that comes out with him attached by an umbilical cord that his mother must cut? As to your question regarding why God didn’t create the baby already circumcised, because God gave us commandments in order that we should purify and improve ourselves! This is why King David said, "The words of God purify! (Psalms 18:31)" 

This Medrash is extremely important for several reasons.  First of all, it defines circumcision clearly as a chok, a mitzvah which we would not have logically derived on our own.  But then Rabbi Akiva is forced to defend the practice in front of a Roman Governor, like the types of people Philo wrote his defense of circumcision in response to. However, Rabbi Akiva gave a quite different answer than Philo, and with his answer Rabbi Akiva spoke to the essence of what Judaism is really about.  A Roman cannot imagine a God that does not create something perfect, that is what makes Him a God!  However, a Jew believes that God created a world and gave us human beings a mission to sanctify this world, to bring holiness and spread the message of God.  God deliberately created an "imperfect" world and gave us a job to do.  The world God created was designed so that we must perfect it.  In this sense God also created a baby boy and asked us to complete the creation.  This lesson should be imprinted on us from our very childhood.  If the world is not right, it is our job to fix it.  It is not right to stand by and let evil pass simply by saying that "This must be what God wants".

Rabbi Saadiah Gaon - A Covenant is a Two-way Street

Rabbi Saadiah Gaon (882-942) was one of the most important rationalist Jewish philosophers, and one of the first to write a detailed book on Jewish philosophy.  In the context of a discussion of philosophical questions that a Rationalist might ask that would challenge his belief in the truth of the Torah, Rabbi Saadia Gaon writes as follows (my own translation, Ha'Emunot Ve'ha'deyot 3:10):

The seventh question that one might be bothered by is when he is thinking about some of the commandments. How could it be that when a man is healthy and complete as he was created, that it is not perfect (as intended by God)? Then suddenly when he removes a certain body part (from a perfectly healthy child) now the child is complete? Obviously, I am referring to (the mitzvah of) circumcision! I will therefore explain to you, that perfection is when something both has nothing missing, but also has nothing extra, and God, when he created man placed this extra body part on man, in order that human beings when they will remove it, will create perfection.


Rabbi Saadiah is responding to skeptics who are asking the same question that Turnus Rufus asked Rabbi Akiva.  Isn't God's creation perfect?  To which Rabbi Saadiah gave the same answer as Rabbi Akiva, with a little different emphasis.  NO, God deliberately created a world that is not perfect, and it is our job as human beings to make it perfect.  Sometimes that requires building things, and sometimes removing things.  This then is the lesson we are supposed to learn from the sign of the covenant.  A true covenant must be a two-way street.  We must bring the world closer to God by repairing it, as he brings us closer to him by His teachings.  

Maimonides - Controlling Sexual Urges

Maimonides is the most famous of the Rationalist Jewish thinkers, and he devoted an entire section of his philosophic magnum opus, The Guide to the Perplexed, to the mission of explaining the reasons for the mitzvot.  Here is how Maimonides explains the mitzvah of circumcision:

As regards circumcision, I think that one of its objects is to limit sexual intercourse, and to weaken the organ of generation as far as possible, and thus cause man to be moderate. Some people believe that circumcision is to remove a defect in man’s formation; but every one can easily reply: How can products of nature be deficient so as to require external completion, especially as the use of the fore-skin to that organ is evident. This commandment has not been enjoined as a complement to a deficient physical creation, but as a means for perfecting man’s moral shortcomings. The bodily injury caused to that organ is exactly that which is desired; it does not interrupt any vital function, nor does it destroy the power of generation. Circumcision simply counteracts excessive lust; for there is no doubt that circumcision weakens the power of sexual excitement, and sometimes lessens the natural enjoyment; the organ necessarily becomes weak when it loses blood and is deprived of its covering from the beginning. Our Sages (Beresh. Rabba, c. 80) say distinctly: It is hard for a woman, with whom an uncircumcised had sexual intercourse, to separate from him. This is, as I believe, the best reason for the commandment concerning circumcision. And who was the first to perform this commandment? Abraham, our father! of whom it is well known how he feared sin; it is described by our Sages in reference to the words, “Behold, now I know that thou art a fair woman to look upon” (Gen. xii. 11).

There is, however, another important object in this commandment. It gives to all members of the same faith, i.e., to all believers in the Unity of God, a common bodily sign, so that it is impossible for any one that is a stranger, to say that he belongs to them. For sometimes people say so for the purpose of obtaining some advantage, or in order to make some attack upon the Jews. No one, however, should circumcise himself or his son for any other reason but pure faith; for circumcision is not like an incision on the leg, or a burning in the arm, but a very difficult operation. It is also a fact that there is much mutual love and assistance among people that are united by the same sign when they consider it as [the symbol of] a covenant. Circumcision is likewise the [symbol of the] covenant which Abraham made in connexion with the belief in God’s Unity. So also every one that is circumcised enters the covenant of Abraham to believe in the unity of God, in accordance with the words of the Law, “To be a God unto thee, and to thy seed after thee” (Gen. xvii. 7). This purpose of the circumcision is as important as the first, and perhaps more important. (Guide to the Perplexed 3:49, Friedlander translation)

Maimonides is well known for his aversion to sexual behavior in general, following in the footsteps of his mentor Aristotle who believed that sexual desire and activity was the basest of human instincts.  It was therefore quite logical for Maimonides to assume that the reduction of sexual pleasure and behavior was a good and healthy thing from a scientific perspective.  So according to Maimonides, the circumcision reduced both male and female sexual pleasure, which for him was a reasonable scientific explanation. Interestingly though, after his scientific rationale for circumcision, Maimonides emphasizes the spiritual aspect of the sign of the covenant between the Jewish people and God, and the solidarity among the people of the covenant as expressed by this bodily sign.  In this, Maimonides is being completely consistent with his usual approach of using the scriptural basis of the laws together with what he saw as scientific and logical basis as well.

The Sefer HaChinuch (Author uncertain, 13th century Spain) combines both Maimonides' discussion and Rabbi Saadiah Gaon, and describes the reason for the mitzvah of Milah as being both a sign to differentiate between Jews and Gentiles, and as a physical completion that God left to human beings.  He does not describe why a body without a foreskin is more complete though and does not mention Maimonides description of a decrease in sexual desire or the health benefits described by Philo.

Maimonides has now brought into the rabbinic discussion the claims that Philo made a thousand years earlier.  That the lesson of the circumcision was that we must appropriately control our physical urges.  Both Maimonides and Philo understood this physiologically, i.e. that removing the foreskin lessened the sex drive.  However, later thinkers understood this more as a moral lesson.  That by removing the foreskin we remind ourselves that are sexual behavior needs to be properly controlled and appropriately expressed.  We will see this shortly in the words of Rabbi Hirsch.

A Quick Nod to the Mystics

As the mystical approach to Torah became more dominant in Judaism, there were of course many mystical and spiritual explanations of the special mitzvah of circumcision.   Comparisons of the blood of Milah to the blood of sacrifices, comparisons between the blood of the Milah to the binding of Isaac, the idea that the name of God was "written" on the Jewish man's body through circumcision, and many more spiritual explanations.  However, I am writing this blog as a chronicler of the rationalist approach, so I am not going to do an exhaustive review of the mystical significance of this mitzvah. It is important however to remind the readers of the blog that there is an extraordinarily rich history of spiritual explanations and meanings behind this ritual.  I am not belittling them at all, God forbid.  I would just have to start a new blog to discuss "Mystical Medical Halacha" and I am sorry, but I am not planning such a blog.

Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch Responds to Reform

Both the mystical and rationalistic traditions regarding circumcision continued to flourish for centuries side by side until modern times. For the rationalists, the explanations of Rabbi Saadiah Gaon, Rambam, and the Sefer HaChinuch remained the basis of the circumcision ritual. All was well with circumcision among Jews until the advent of the reform movement.  One of the first religious practices attacked by the Reform movement was the practice of circumcision.  The arguments against it included: that it was "barbaric", that God doesn't create "imperfect" human beings, that it was designed to separate Jews from others, that it violates the free choice of the child, that it violates the Torah's principle of not injuring oneself, and so on.  Most of these arguments we have already seen in our discussions of the attacks of the gentiles against circumcision, but now these attacks were coming from fellow Jews.

The spiritualist and mystically oriented Jews of Eastern Europe did not really have to confront the "rationalist" arguments of the anti-circumcizers.  For them, the spiritual reasons for circumcision were enough.  However, the Rationalist Halacha observant Jews, mostly concentrated in Germany and other Western European countries, desperately needed an educated and informed rationalist response to the anti-circumcision onslaught brought on by the reformers.  The most important and most articulate rationalist defender of Orthodoxy was Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch (1808-1888), and he stepped up to the plate and produced what remains the most beautiful and well-reasoned explanation of the sign of the covenant.

Rabbi Hirsch writes a lengthy treatise on the subject which is detailed and too long to quote here in its entirety.  I am therefore going to summarize his ideas in my own words, and for those who would like to read it in the original, please see his Essay "A Basic Outline of Jewish Symbolism" which is printed in several of the various collections of Rabbi Hirsch's writings.

According to Rabbi Hirsch, the mitzvah of Brit Milah symbolizes the very essence of what differentiates Judaism from many other religions. In other religions, sexual activity, indeed all physical activity is considered mundane and unholy.  They may be necessary for life, but they are still physical and mundane.  However, a Jew worships God and sanctifies life by the very mundane activities that others think are just debased and physical.  A Jew does this by following God's instructions on how to perform these otherwise physical behaviors. Nowhere is this idea more evident than when it comes to human sexuality.  Sexuality is holy and special, and sanctifies the human body, but only when it is done properly in the proper context.  By commanding His people to remove the foreskin of the male sexual organ, God is reminding us in a physical way how holy and special the sexual act is, if we remember His guidance and laws.  The covenant between God and His people is exactly this.  We make the world holy by using the bodies and emotions and drives that He created us with for their proper purpose.

Rabbi Hirsch goes on to describe how the removal of the foreskin symbolizes the removal of that which separates our physicality from our spirituality.   In Judaism, the two are not separate, but they are two parts of one whole.  Judaism does not believe or teach that the physical and spiritual reside on different planes.  They are all one and the same in the service of Godliness.

Ultimately though, Rabbi Hirsch still defines the essence of circumcision as a "chok" - something we do because God commanded us so, and not for health reasons. We do it because God asked us to make a sign on our bodies of the special covenant between us and God.   It is that covenant that gives us the ability to elevate the mundane and sanctify the profane.

For those familiar with the teachings of Rabbi Hirsch, the above summary of his ideas regarding circumcision would sound remarkably familiar.  Rabbi Hirsch often emphasizes the symbolism of the actions that we do for God.  The meaning in our actions lies in understanding the lessons that this action is supposed to teach.  This is rationalistic in the sense that it provides meaning to the action, though it also avoids assigning scientific reasons to the action.  The action itself remains a chok, something we will never fully grasp.  But we can grasp the lessons that we are supposed to learn from this act.

Post Rabbi Hirsch - Nothing New

After Rabbi Hirsch many rabbis have written about this subject, but as far as I could find, no one has come up with anything new that was not already said.  So, I will end my survey of rabbinic literature with Rabbi Hirsch. In general, the "health benefits" arguments of Maimonides and Philo fell by the wayside, and the symbolism of the covenant, and the many lessons to be learned have become the mainstay of the rabbinic rationalist approach towards circumcision.

There is an obvious advantage to dropping the health-related arguments.  Science can, and has, proven these arguments to be wrong in many cases.  So clearly one is taking a dangerous position by attempting to explain the Torah with scientific claims that may one day be disproven.  However, the Rambam in many places understood and stated specifically that his suggestions were just suggestions.  If these assertions are one day proven false, Maimonides would simply have moved on to another possible suggestion.  

Let me summarize the "reasons" that we have discussed regarding the practice of circumcision:

1.  A sign of the special covenant between God and His people (Torah)

2.  A physical sign of our membership in a specific group (Torah and described by Maimonides and sefer HaChinuch)

3.  A symbol to remind us to remove the obstacles of corruption that separate our hearts from God (Jeremiah)

4.  Health reasons (Philo)

5.  reduction of sexual pleasure (Maimonides and Philo)

6.  Increased fertility (Philo)

7.  To teach us that man is meant to work on and perfect God's creation (Rabbi Akiva)

8.  A covenant is a two-way street (Rabbi Sa'adiah Gaon)

9.  To teach us to control our sexual urges (Maimonides)

10. To teach us the concept that we sanctify the mundane by adhering to God's instructions (Rabbi Hirsch)

11. To teach us that are no barriers in Judaism between the physical and spiritual, all is holy (Rabbi Hirsch)

12. a bazillion spiritual, mystical, and kabbalistic explanations

13. it is a chok. God said so. period. 

(Reasons 5 and 6 have been proven to be scientifically incorrect. Reason #4 is scientifically correct but not exactly in the same way that Philo presented it)
 
Before we leave this subject, I believe that it is important to write about the current medical science regarding the health benefits of circumcision.  Not because these are the reasons for the commandment, we just discussed those in detail, but because it is interesting that this practice does have known and scientifically proven health benefits.  Please see this statement by the American Academy of Pediatrics for the full details of the medical benefits of circumcision.  

It is encouraging to know, that this practice that Jews have been doing for thousands of years, has the following medical benefits and more: Circumcision reduces the transmission rates of almost all STDs thus protecting both the circumcised male and his female sexual partner. These STD's include HIV, HPV, syphilis, herpes, Chancroid, and several more.  It was noted to have a protective effect against Bacterial vaginosis in female partners of circumcised men, and on the rates of cervical cancer in female partners and penile cancer in the men themselves.  Circumcision reduces the rates of urinary tract infections in baby boys, and phimosis in adult men.  There is also clear evidence that there is no reduction in sexual functioning, sexual desire, or sexual satisfaction in either circumcised men or their female partners.  There is clear evidence of no difference in fertility.  Please read the link I posted above for more details.

There is obviously much more to be discussed about this subject. But this is a weekly Parsha post, and my goal was to give the rationalist approach to a medical halacha in this week's parsha, and I hope I accomplished this task.  Please let me know what you think!

Wednesday, October 21, 2020

Noach - Can Suicide be Justified?

This will be my first installment in my new weekly RMH Parsha series!  

I decided to temporarily venture away from the Kosher topic and to try this out.  I hope this new series will be informative and stimulate interesting discussion. I might miss a few weeks, but I will try to pick a "medical-Halachic" topic from the weekly parshah (Torah portion) and write about it.

This week I had a lot to choose from, but I will choose to discuss the topic of suicide in Halacha. In the Torah portion this week we read the story of Noah and the flood.  When Noah left the ark as the flood receded, God instructed him as follows:

But for your own life-blood I will require a reckoning: I will require it of every beast; of man, too, will I require a reckoning for human life, of every man for that of his fellow man! (Genesis 9:5)

The words "for your own lifeblood etc." have been interpreted by the Talmud as the Biblical origin of the prohibition against taking one's own life.

...as it is taught in a baraita: The verse states: “And surely your blood of your souls will I require” (Genesis 9:5), and Rabbi Elazar says: From the hand of your souls, i.e., from yourself, will I require your blood, meaning one is liable even for taking his own life (Tractate Bava Kamma 91b)

This law was codified by Maimonides (Mishna Torah Laws of Murder 2:2) and in all subsequent Halachic codes.  Not much controversy there, and a standard accepted Halacha.  However, it is not so simple.  There have been many high-profile cases of suicides in the turbulent and difficult history of the Jewish people. I will list some of the more prominent instances and describe briefly the controversy surrounding each one.

Avoiding Certain Painful Death 

First, let us look at the suicides recorded in the Tanach.  We will begin with the tragic fate of King Saul, who was the first king of the united Kingdom of Israel, as he was surrounded by the Philistine enemy, and faced certain capture and likely taunting and torture. 

The Philistines attacked Israel, and the men of Israel fled before the Philistines and [many] fell on Mount Gilboa. The Philistines pursued Saul and his sons, and the Philistines struck down Jonathan, Abinadab, and Malchishua, sons of Saul. The battle raged around Saul, and some of the archers hit him, and he was severely wounded by the archers. Saul said to his arms-bearer, “Draw your sword and run me through, so that the uncircumcised may not run me through and make sport of me.” But his arms-bearer, in his great awe, refused; whereupon Saul grasped the sword and fell upon it. When his arms-bearer saw that Saul was dead, he too fell on his sword and died with him. (Samuel I 31:2-5)

The reasoning for the suicide of Saul and his arms-bearer seems obvious.  He faced imminent capture by the Philistines, the enemy with whom he had fought countless wars throughout his reign. Once captured, it is not difficult to imagine what he would have been forced to endure at their hands. In addition, one can imagine the humiliation that this would have caused to the people of Israel when their King was treated this way.  In Jeremiah we find how the Chaldean enemy would desecrate the bones of the buried kings in order to humiliate the people of Judah at the time of the destruction of the first temple:

At that time—declares the LORD—the bones of the kings of Judah, of its officers, of the priests, of the prophets, and of the inhabitants of Jerusalem shall be taken out of their graves and exposed to the sun, the moon, and all the host of heaven which they loved and served and followed, to which they turned and bowed down. They shall not be gathered for reburial; they shall become dung upon the face of the earth (Jeremiah 8:1-2)

One can only imagine what the Philistines would have done to the King when captured alive.

The Rabbis (Genesis Rabbah 34:13) point out that the language "but...reckoning" (see full quote above Genesis 9:5) " infers that there are exceptions to this rule.  The example the rabbis give is the suicide of Saul (And Hananiah Mishael and Azariah which we will discuss later).  So apparently, in this instance the Rabbis approved of the suicide of Saul. We mentioned two potential rationales for his suicide, to avoid torture and death and to avoid national humiliation.  The Rabbis do not explain why they supported his decision, but it is reasonable to assume that it was because he was avoiding certain death at the hands of the enemy.  This is because Saul explicitly stated this reason.  This is indeed how it was understood by the later Halakhists, as it was codified in the Shulchan Aruch, Yoreh Deah 345.  

This then is the first understandable rationale for suicide, to avoid certain painful death.  Whether or not this can be extended to the avoidance of certain painful death at the hands of a different type of "enemy", such as a terminal illness is a very interesting question. However, it is beyond the scope of this post.

Suicide to Save Others

The next famous suicide recorder in Tanach is that of the mighty Samson:

As their spirits rose, they said, “Call Samson here and let him dance for us.” Samson was fetched from the prison, and he danced for them. Then they put him between the pillars. And Samson said to the boy who was leading him by the hand, “Let go of me and let me feel the pillars that the temple rests upon, that I may lean on them.” Now the temple was full of men and women; all the lords of the Philistines were there, and there were some three thousand men and women on the roof watching Samson dance. Then Samson called to the LORD, “O Lord GOD! Please remember me, and give me strength just this once, O God, to take revenge of the Philistines, if only for one of my two eyes.” He embraced the two middle pillars that the temple rested upon, one with his right arm and one with his left, and leaned against them; Samson cried, “Let me die with the Philistines!” and he pulled with all his might. The temple came crashing down on the lords and on all the people in it. Those who were slain by him as he died outnumbered those who had been slain by him when he lived. (Judges 16:25-30)

Samson's suicide was intentional, but nonetheless it is almost universally considered heroic.  There are multiple reasons why this is likely true. One is because as a high-profile prisoner his own ultimate death at the hands of the Philistines was almost certain, similar to the case of Saul.  However, there is more to it than that.  By killing the Philistines, he was killing an implacable foe of the people of Israel.  They were actively engaged in fighting a war. By his suicide, he was saving the people of Israel. We now have another suicide that was justified on a different basis. A soldier in wartime committing suicide in order to save his people.  

This can have ramifications on the battlefield of course, the story of the hero from the Lebanon war Roi Klein immediately comes to mind.  He jumped upon a live grenade in battle thus saving his fellow soldiers' lives.  Another hero is the soldier Uri Ilan, who committed suicide in 1954 as a captive in a Syrian prison.  He felt that he would succumb to the torture of his captors and give away secrets, so he hung himself, scribbling a note later found in his cell that stated, "I have not given away information, I killed myself".



Here we see a picture of Rabbi Shlomo Goren the military chief Rabbi standing on the left, saluting the grave of Uri Ilan.  Partly in response to this event, Rabbi Goren wrote a responsa permitting suicide for Israeli soldiers in terrible predicaments such as this.  He based his decision on the precedent of Samson.   Many questions can be raised about this idea though.  Does this apply only to soldiers? Is sacrificing yourself for others always considered appropriate?  This is no simple matter of course, and again beyond the scope of this post.

Martyrdom

There are many instances in which people gave their lives in order to sanctify God's name.  There is a difference however, between people who actually ended their own lives, versus allowed themselves to be killed under these tragic circumstances.  My focus in this post is on the permissibility of taking one's own life.  However, I must mention that there is a very fine line between these two types of scenarios.  The most famous perhaps, is the story of Chananiah, Mishael and Azariah, as recorded in the Book of Daniel chapter 3.  They gave themselves up for death in a furnace, rather than commit idolatry.  However, they did not kill themselves.  I will focus now on whether or not one may take their own lives, if the alternative is to be forced into idolatry or other terrible fate.

Suicide To Avoid Torture and Suffering

The Talmud in Gittin 57b relates the following tragic story, which occurred during the aftermath of the Roman destruction of Jerusalem:

There was an incident involving four hundred boys and girls who were taken as captives for the purpose of prostitution. These children sensed on their own what they were expected to do, and they said: If we commit suicide and drown in the sea, will we come to eternal life in the World-to-Come? The oldest child among them expounded the verse: “The Lord said, I will bring back from Bashan, I will bring them back from the depths of the sea” (Psalms 68:23).“I will bring back from Bashan,”I.e...., from between the teeth [bein shen] of the lion, and “I will bring them back from the depths of the sea” is referring to those who drown in the sea for the sake of Heaven. When the girls heard this, they all leapt and fell into the sea. The boys then drew an a fortiori inference with regard to themselves and said: If these girls, for whom sexual intercourse with men is their natural way, act in such a manner, then we, for whom sexual intercourse with men is not our natural way, should all the more so conduct ourselves likewise. They too leapt into the sea. Concerning them and others like them the verse states: “As For Your sake we are killed all the day long; we are reckoned as sheep for the slaughter” (Psalms 44:23).

These children are being praised for their actions, but was it the right thing to do? according to Tosafot, it seems that they were allowed to commit suicide because they were afraid the horrific torture and suffering that would be subjected to as Roman sex slaves. Under such circumstances one may take one's own life.  It is debated though, as some commentaries understand that it was only permissible for these children because they knew that not only would they have to endure sexual enslavement, they would also be forcibly converted to idolatry (see Petach Eynayim for example).  However, there is no mention of this in the Talmud or the Tosafot.  So, the simple understanding of this story is that to avoid torture, one may take their own life.  How and when this idea can or should be applied, is a complicated topic indeed.

Suicide to avoid enslavement or capture

Perhaps the most famous mass suicide in Jewish history was the suicide of the close to one thousand defenders of the last remaining Jewish fortress of Masada during the revolt against the Roman conquerors.  This was recorded by Josephus, and there is some controversy regarding the historical veracity of his account.  Nonetheless, this event has become an important part of the Jewish historical consciousness.   As the Romans were about to breach the walls of the fortress, which would've meant the certain enslavement of the Jewish defenders, their leader Elazar gave the following speech:

"Since we, long ago, my generous friends, resolved never to be servants to the Romans, nor to any other than to God himself, who alone is the true and just Lord of mankind, the time is now come that obliges us to make that resolution true in practice. And let us not at this time bring a reproach upon ourselves for self-contradiction, while we formerly would not undergo slavery, though it were then without danger, but must now, together with slavery, choose such punishments also as are intolerable; I mean this, upon the supposition that the Romans once reduce us under their power while we are alive. We were the very first that revolted from them, and we are the last that fight against them; and I cannot but esteem it as a favor that God hath granted us, that it is still in our power to die bravely, and in a state of freedom, which hath not been the case of others, who were conquered unexpectedly. It is very plain that we shall be taken within a day's time; but it is still an eligible thing to die after a glorious manner .... this was  the effect of God's anger against us for our manifold sins, which we have been guilty of in a most insolent and extravagant manner with regard to our own countrymen; the punishments of which let us not receive from the Romans, but from God himself, as executed by our own hands; for these will be more moderate than the other. Let our wives die before they are abused, and our children before they have tasted of slavery; and after we have slain them, let us bestow that glorious benefit upon one another mutually, and preserve ourselves in freedom, as an excellent funeral monument for us. But first let us destroy our money and the fortress by fire; for I am well assured that this will be a great grief to the Romans, that they shall not be able to seize upon our bodies, and shall fall of our wealth also; and let us spare nothing but our provisions; for they will be a testimonial when we are dead that we were not subdued for want of necessaries, but that, according to our original resolution, we have preferred death before slavery." Josephus Flavius, The Wars of the Jews, VII 8.6

The speech was much longer, but from the excerpts I just quoted it seems evident that the primary motivation of the mass suicide was to avoid slavery and humiliation at the hands of the Romans. However, they were also concerned about rape, torture, and more.  Most of us were raised to think of the people of Masada as heroes, but did they do the right thing?  

In support of the Masada defenders, many would cite the precedents above that support the option of suicide in face of certain death or intolerable suffering (see here for an example of this defense).  Others might claim that the Romans would've forced them to give up their religion, but this argument doesn't show up in Elazar's speech at all, nor does it seem like an accurate fear historically.  

Famously, Rabbi Moshe Zvi Neria presented an impassioned argument against what the Masada defenders did.  He felt that by using the arguments presented in Elazar's speech, every Jew should kill themselves rather that submit to foreign rule.  There would be no Jews alive today if we followed that path.  He argued that they should've fought to the extent that they could, and when defeated, even when forced to be subjugated to the Romans, at least some would've survived.

Suicide to prevent Forced Conversion 

During the middle ages, especially during the persecution of Jews that occurred during the time of the crusades, there were several episodes where Jewish communities chose mass suicide rather than surrender to the Christian mobs that attacked them.  In many of these cases, they could've saved their lives by converting to Christianity. 

In some cases, the choice of suicide was probably more to save themselves from certain torture and death at the hands of the mob.  One of the most famous mass suicides was the one that occurred in that occured in York England in 1190. The entire Jewish community barricaded themselves within the royal castle to protect themselves from an angry Christian mob.  Although they were threatened with forced baptism or death, most historians agree that the "forced baptism" that the Jews would've suffered was actually death by an angry mob.  The Jews chose mass suicide rather than forced baptism. However, the few who chose not to commit suicide were killed anyway when the mob broke through the barricade.  

However, many cases were not so clear, and many times throughout France and Germany (especially in the Rhineland massacres of 1096 - described graphically in the Tisha B’Av Liturgy Kinah 25)  there were cases where suicide was chosen when a forced baptism might have saved their lives. Many Jews did save themselves that way, though most historians agree that of the people who did submit to forced baptism, the majority of them returned to Judaism. On the other hand, many of those who gave themselves up for forced baptism, ended up getting killed anyway. While we clearly must admire and commemorate their dedication and devotion, we are still allowed to question if indeed their choice was correct. There are no easy answers, we cannot be judges of what people do in such terrible times.

Killing Children to Keep Them from being Forcibly Converted

This topic is very difficult and painful to discuss, but we do know that in some cases, when confronted with the choice of having their children torn away from them and raised as Christian, while they themselves were slaughtered, chose to kill their children and themselves rather than submit to such horror.  In a comment on the verse that started our discussion, Genesis 9:5, the Da'at Zekeinim strongly condemned this practice.  He unequivocally believed that the children should be saved no matter what.  In fact, as we know from the much later horrific persecution of the Holocaust, many children were saved specifically by giving them to Christian families or the church itself.  It seems like people understood that the chance of life for these children was paramount.

Suicide as a response to utter despair

Writing these words is awful, but the Rabbis have always understood that when one commits suicide in a situation of utter despair, that we should not judge such a person unfavorably. The examples of concentration camp inmates who fell against the electrified fence immediately comes to mind.  The most famous example in the Talmud (Gittin 57a) is that of the woman whose seven sons were executed in front of her for refusing to submit to forced idol worship.  She went up to the roof and jumped to her death after this unimaginably horrific event.  The Talmud treats her favorably, and even records a comforting heavenly voice that called out to her when she met her death.  While the Talmud is not condoning or advising what to do in such cases, clearly the Rabbis understood the circumstances.

Suicide in Face of Terminal Illness or Assisted Suicide

I am only mentioning this because I don't want to be criticized for neglecting to discuss this important subject.  There is a lot of literature on this subject, and I need to save it for another post, or maybe even another series of posts.  Please forgive me for punting it to a future date. God-willing, I will get there. 

I hope you learned something from this post, and I will do my best to continue this series on each weekly portion.  I am open to suggestions if any of you have topics you would like me to explore, whether in the comments (preferred), or by email.  Shabbat Shalom